Diary Of  A Black Woman In A White World

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Please, Don’t Touch My Child’s Hair

Please, Don’t Touch My Child’s Hair

Black and mixed-race children aren’t pets, so please don’t stroke their hair

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Zuri Stevens
Apr 16, 2024
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When my mixed-race children were younger, I often came across people who wanted to stroke their hair. More often than not, they didn’t even ask for my consent. I’d be in a cashier line at the grocery store, at an amusement park, or at the doctor’s office, and a white hand would suddenly dart out of nowhere to pet my yo…

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